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How do you get over your first love? Serious replies only please.?
This is going to be a bit of story telling, so please bear with me and please make your answer relate to my experience.Background I've been in long term relationships before, and engaged once out of pity, he proposed in front of his parents but I never took any of them seriously. I got raped at the age of 13. I was planning on saving myself for marriage, but stopped caring about life or the value of sex, after the event. Still, I wasn't promiscuous and I probably slept with my ex's a total of 10 times altogether. I've been called things such as a " poisonous bitch" and a " heartless cunt" because I never seemed sad over break ups. In truth, I had never loved any of my ex's. I had fun with them, while it lasted, but I never thought of a future with any of them.Present day My sophomore year of college, I met, for anonymity's sake, Tom. I had a huge crush on him, but never acted on it. One day, in the beginning of October, we ended up getting drunk and sleeping together... the first time I had ever done something like that. I apologized over and over, and sought out the advice of my friends. I was convinced that I was a whore and that I blew my chances. We started seeing each other, to my surprise, and I started to like him a lot. Then I fucked up by going to a party with some friends and taking my shirt off bra left on, I didn't kiss anyone, hug anyone, let alone hook up with anyone and he told me he didn't want to be with someone like that. He eventually gave in to giving me another chance but told me that he had high standards. I promised I'd leave him alone forever if I fucked up again and that I'd try my best to meet those standards.The next months of Nov, Dec, and Jan were amazing. We rarely fought and when we did fight, it brought us closer. I understood his career choices of always traveling and possibly never being able to see me military, mercenary, what have you and I think he liked the fact that I accepted it. All I really asked for in return was that he didn't abandon me and that he remained faithful to me. I took loyalty to such a far step with him he had trust issues that I stopped hanging out with my friends, stopped talking to guys that have ever hit on me, and made a note to every guy I knew that I was taken and off the market. I would even make sure to grab his arm of something if we passed by an ex of mine to make sure he knew that I was over them and I had no problem showing them I was happy with another guy. I went above and beyond to the point of exhaustion and eventually became a hermit. I didn't mind. For the first time, I openly admitted I was in love and I let myself love another individual. I had no doubt in my mind that even though he never said it, he loved me as well. One day, late January, he asked me when was the first time I had sex with the guy that I dated before him. I said " Two weeks. We only had sex twice. He didn't mean very much to me." Honestly, Tom was the only guy that really meant a lot to me and the only guy I had a very sexual relationship with. By then, I found out he had lost his virginity to me, to my surprise, because he was 22. I'm 19. For some reason he said " Only two weeks? Wow. I don't know how to take that. I can't be with you." He broke up with me over that piece of information.We attempted to get back together and piece together the remains of our relationship, but he said he can never get over the fact that it only took this guy 2 weeks to get into my pants. Now, it's March, and after trying trying trying to get back together and make it work, I realized he changed. He stopped caring about me and stopped being attentive. I also found an e mail where he asked another girl if she was single. It was a girl from his hometown He lived in AZ, me in NY and since spring break is in less than a week, I can only imagine why he would ask her. Weirdly enough, it was after we broke up where he would start telling me he loved me... but never before. When I felt loved, he'd never say it. When I stopped feeling it, he would say it. I've concluded that, indeed, this man does not care or love me, as of now. He said I make him miserable and he doesn't believe that me sleeping with him is any different than me sleeping with me ex, even though I've told him over and over that the difference is that I loved him Tom where I never loved my ex. How do I get over him? This is the first time I've ever loved anyone and I want to get over him. I've never loved before, so I don't know how to go about this. I've had enough guys ask me out as of lately, but I'm not interested in going out with anyone or meeting someone new. I don't drink and I don't party. I feel betrayed and cheated. Worst of all, I put so much effort into this relationship and I feel like it has all been overlooked. He focuses on his jealousy of my past relationship to the point it consumed him and this relationship. He made it clear that he will always be miserable wi
After everything he did, why do i still love him?
i have known this guy for almost a two years now. i dated him at the beginning for the school year and it was wonderful. he never touched me the wrong way, he respected my parents and would help them in any way. well one day after i got sick he came over and broke up with me after his ex called him. i dont know what happened or what was said. but he broke up with me and it hurt a lot. that was almost 6 months ago and there has been a lot of drama between now and then. we secretly talked for a while then he wouldnt talk to me or look at me. then in january and half of february we talked and it was great. i could tell him every thing like i use to when we were friends and when we were dating. well my mom txted him ab the race and his girlfriend got mad and txted my mom back well my mom txt her back well she called my mom and said some things. my mom didnt like it so she said some stuff and called her a b h. so she told her boyfriend and he called us and told us if we ever call him, txt him, or try to get a hold of him in any way that there will be problems. i thought that was the end of it after i heard that but no i still love him and i still want to be with him. i cant see my life with out him. what is wrong with me? why do i still love him? will this effect my future relationshfips? will i ever get over him?? thanks for your help xoxo blondechickie
Does he still love me?
What does it mean when a guy says that he loves you and avoids you for a couple of years and he's still single?
What would you would you do if someone you love breaks up with you?
I am doing a survey.
If someone you were 'seeing' unexclusivly asked you if you loved them?
what kind of reacction would you say they were expecting?
Is anyone else as in love with someone as i am :)?
Just wondering if anyone else feels the utt most BEAUTIFUL feeling in the whole world. Id hate to think i was the only one to be truely in love and be loved in return. Ive been in love with my girlfriend for over 4 years now. and i cant handle how perfect it is sometimes > <
What to do if your boyfriends best friend confesses his secret love for you?
My boyfriend's best friend just told me that he has always been into me and wants to wait even if it's " forever" for me. A problem is that I did confess to him one night that I was frustrated with my bf because I am his first serious gf and he is still really inexperienced. I don't know how to handle this
Why can't I just love him?
So we start fighting then o start to think our relationship is failing, now I think I don't love him. What do I do? Do I take a little break from him to think about things, keep torturing myself, or just stop talking to him all toghether? Please help me this is tearing me apart.
GUYS ONLY: Why would a guy not tell someone that they're still in love w/ someone else...?
...and lead her on for nearly a couple of months & let her think that they've fallen for her? & is it worth waiting or would it lead to a broken heart?
My love toward my boyfriends has faded?
but how to work it out i dont want to loose him
Problems with a guy please answer?? I give 10 points and i will love u forever n_n?
Well first of all thanks for your help well there is this guy in my class and i have a crush on him. But we sometimes ignore each other Anyway yesterday i was about to enter my class and i was talking to a friend about how easy the subject was. All of a sudden he turned around and started an argument about how it was REALLY complicated and he said i knew nothing about it and finally told " have fun" then he ignored me the rest of the day, worst of all is that he said it in a very mean way Today he sat infront of me and since i was mad i decided to ignore him. He turned around at least 5 times and just keept staring at me for like longer than 10 seconds so i did noticed But i didnt even look at him so he tried to start conversation like 3 times and began smiling and graving all my notes and laughing at all the stuff i was telling to my friend... like WFT?? SI really dont know what to think, why do guys do those things?? O O does hate me or like or something?? i think girls are less confussing?? thanks 10 points or 5 stars or whatever you wanna call it lol P
How to make my bf love me and love me moore?
soo we are together for 5 days i loved him for 4 years and at least we are together he says that he loves me verry much and i wont really to belive that but the thing i s i'm worrying that he is verry attractive and hot so many girls like him and give anythign to be with him i'm soo proud and happy that he choosed me and he is with me he even had fiught with my ex boyfriend telling him that live me alone that i'm with him now and for me thats soo much but what do you ppl think should i do to make him love moor and moor ?
He loves me, we are together, he is great, but I am not sure?
he calls me and visits everyday,he brought me flowers, he cares for me and loves me.I love him too... but lately I have noticed that something is missing...when I kissed him I thought of my ex, and how it felt with him.my ex and my new boyfriend are complete opposites...mt ex didn't call me... I called him, I was the one who tried and get him.he loved me but I didn't see that at the moment and found out only after we broke up.but don't get me wrong... I got over my ex. I will never go back to him.My bf... well he calls me and he is the one who comes to me.Not that I don't.... I do, but he does it more often.I don't know what is missing in him...I guess it's me...there's no spark like with my ex...who do I get that spark?
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