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Question: Love problems please help?

(Posted by: Ashley on 2010-02-08 20:56:10)

Im In Love With My Best Friend (Surprise Surprise) And He Likes Me Too But There Are Only Two Girls Hes Ever Not Cheated On (Chelsea And Me) And Hes Afraid To Hurt Me By Cheating On Me But Ive Told Him A Million Times I Trust Him And That I Wont Let It Hurt Me Because Im Willing To Go Through Hell And Back For Him But I Dont Know How To Convince Him. Hes Afraid Hell Hurt Me And The Idea Of Hurting Me Would Kill Him So He Says And All I Want Is To Be With Him...Any Ideas?

Posted by: Jessie on 2010-02-08, 20:59:15

I have never cheated on my gf once and then never did it again so maybe the saying is true "once a cheater always a cheater "

Posted by: philly_ya'll on 2010-02-08, 21:00:19

If he liked you that much then he would want to be with you and only you. You shouldn't have to go through hell and back for him. Healthy relationships aren't like that. This relationship sounds doomed before it has even started. Stay friends because friends can become lovers but lovers very rarely become friends.

Posted by: KAT.(: on 2010-02-08, 21:00:32

You sound like you like him a ton and youre positive that he wont cheat but he wont believe you. you should just leave it alone (kind of) and instead try doing other things that might show you have enormous amounts of trust for him, good luck(:

Posted by: Naiya on 2010-02-08, 21:00:33

Well give it a try, and if he really cares he would try 2365432 times more not to hurt you. you cant gain anything, if you don't risk it. just be careful sweetie.

Posted by: SOS on 2010-02-08, 21:00:43

Why do you type like that? Hurts my eyes :(

Posted by: happy on 2010-02-08, 21:00:54

You are crazy - how old are you again??? 14, 15 - under 25??

Posted by: no_name_person on 2010-02-08, 21:05:51

The only thing I can't think of is stay by his side. Don't say that you won't let him cheating hurt you because it will no matter how much you don't want it too. My fiance broke up with me two years ago (we're together now though) and I went through hell. I cried for 5 hours and wouldn't leave my room for a week but 10 week later when I found out he had mono I rushed to his side. Love makes us do crazy things.