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Question: I'm so in love with this girl...what do you think about this expression of love to her? 10 points!!?

(Posted by: zobiusZarQ on 2010-02-08 22:10:12)

Ive known her for like a year now and I know she has said things to my friend like "i started talking to him cause i thought he was cute and then realized he had a great personality " (which my friend was told NOT to tell me but he obviously did haha). Well she is deeply deeply religious and has brought me to her church, which we go every sunday. i've always considered myself Christian, but she has certainly sparked my faith with God and drawn me closer to Him. I have fallen soo deeply for this girl and we have a ridiculous amount of things in common and are on the same page about a lot of things, even if she is always stressed out and anxious and I am super laid back...I even wrote a song on the piano for her bday and she loved it haha. Anyways we've talked a few times about "why " we met and i when i tell her my feelings, i want to tell her something like "Every time I think of you, it just makes me think and love God even more cause He created everything, including you.. And I just thank God that He has shown me someone that I could care for and admire so much, and that's another reason I think we met. " (i dont want to say love just yet) Is this good? Or do you think it could be "too much " and turn her off? THANKS! She is pretty old fashioned and really has not dated many guys. Sometimes I get the feeling she likes me, other times that she likes me as just a friend...She is 19 and we met in college. Please spare me any rude/ stupid answers.

Posted by: Sunshine on 2010-02-08, 22:21:24

I think what you want to say to her is awesome and would melt any girls heart... I don't think it's too forward, or to held back... Since you brought God up, I'll say this, if you feel this woman is a beautiful gift from God, and you feel she is perfect for you, then I'd go for it. Just being a woman myself, I'd say, move slowly and don't rush things. Let things take their course and let God unfold the relationship piece by piece, step by step. Marriages aren't based on feelings, but on a solid rock that only God can provide. Best of wishes to you and God bless you!!!

Posted by: candy apple red on 2010-02-08, 22:16:31

Personally, i think that you should just tell her that you like her and see where it goes from there. If she says that she doesn't like you like that than you guys can just be friends. :]good luck

Posted by: Janey on 2010-02-08, 22:17:58

Awwww : ) this is the sweetest thing i have ever heard. she would be crazy not to go for you if you said those things to her! good luck!

Posted by: phuc p on 2010-02-08, 22:24:36

Action speaks more than words, just laid back n chill, find a good place n talk to her but dont tell her how u feel about her if u do, u will become wussy, then hold her hand and say ' u look beautiful tonight " n kiss her. Btw, when u try to hold her hand n she push u away, my advice is move on lol