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Question: My love toward my boyfriends has faded?

(Posted by: blackie on 2010-03-10 05:43:57)

But how to work it out i dont want to loose him

Posted by: blaxigal on 2010-03-10, 05:47:49

Sweetheart, wen u are in a relationship and ur heart doesnt skip wen he see the one u love it doenst mena u dont love him. Im sure its somewhere there... u said u dont want to lose him that just shows u still love him. hung in there, that overwhelming feeling is on a low it will soon get a high

Posted by: Onedayfly on 2010-03-10, 05:50:11

Loosen up by lubing up

Posted by: Christine on 2010-03-10, 05:52:21

Ive been in the exact same situation as you. Im sorry to tell you that the love never came back. If you dont love him then its not going to work in the long term. It was hard, but I trusted my heart and moved on. I later met someone great. And you will too. But dont waste your precious time with someone who you dont love.

Posted by: bigdaddy_ruffluv on 2010-03-10, 05:55:07

If there is no Growth in your love for him it must be over. We learn to grow when we fall in love...we learn from the difficult times and we then appreciate the not so difficult ones. If you can't find a way to fall in love with him again then there isn't any salvage for your relationship. The secret to love is that with each waking day you find just another way to fall in love with your guy/ girl....If he doesn't have the qualities to make you fall i love with him all over again then there is nothing left for him to give to you

Posted by: Beauty Babe on 2010-03-10, 06:01:23

Why has faded?? Do you guys spend too much time together? Does he not give you attention? Depending on the reason, you may or may not be able to fix it. For example, if it is due to you guys spending time with eachother 24/ 7....you can fix this. Make a point to spend more "me time " by hanging with more girls and your family. Take a breather and tell him that your going on a little vacation. Say this and he will think its just that NOT...oh she wants to take a break from me and possibly wants to break up! Be careful the way you say this to him. Speak to him a little less on the phone too so when you come to him, your schedule and life is unpredictable to him! With this, you can suprise him and in your sex life, do sexy new things you havent done before. Including wearing new lingerie and games! If he doesn`t give you attention or he`s in the wrong for another reason, then confront him. He should be able to understand your feelings and if he can`t, it wasnt meant to be...then you must move on. Love always finds a way so dont think the end of the world is comming if you break up with him.