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Question: Am i in love or in attraction?

(Posted by: Anu on 2010-03-10 05:51:31)

I don't know whether I am in love. i am a teenager and a classmate of mine propsed me. i too accepted. but i am not likely sure whether i love him. but some times i think i can't live without him. i can surely say he loves me a lot. but is mine a true love? Atleast his love for me is how far tue? please give me a best answer of ur opinion.

Posted by: I m alone on 2010-03-10, 07:38:38

Anu, tell me why you have accepted his proposal when you dont know whether you love him or not? You did not understood real meaning of true love till now. You are having attraction because he proposed you. Suppose he did not proposed you, then did you have gone for proposing him? Believe me at this age, almost all guys thinks that they must have a girlfriend. They dont mean love, they just want to satisfey their desire of having an affair. SO, KEEP SAFE DISTANCE FROM SUCH GUYS IN YOUR LIFE. Always look for honesty, trust and respect for you in the eyes of your guy. If you dont find it then leave him. Just come out of the feeling and wait for right time. If you want to enjoy your college life with attraction and teenage relationship with no meaning then continue. I suggest you to wait for some time , god will send a right person for you. Till then do studies and be loyal to your parents. Conclusion: you are having attraction and not true love. Recommendation: wait for some time to understand the love. Its so beautiful.

Posted by: Maribel L on 2010-03-10, 05:53:16

It's only an attraction my dear.....

Posted by: Luchiya on 2010-03-10, 05:53:24

So try spend more time with him. later you will understand it is attraction or love, as the attraction does not last long.

Posted by: Alexander on 2010-03-10, 05:54:33

Teenager like how old? 13,14,15 its kinda dumb age,just crush above that then depends on you.if you really know what love is and you a good judger of character then yeah its a perfect age to fall in love but dont rush and dont do anything stupid.just try to get more friends with him and take it to the next level only if you are really comfortable with him and you have known him inside out.

Posted by: Ryan C on 2010-03-10, 05:55:39

Darling, why think so much, enjoy the attention and take your time to find out, just make sure that he does not use your affection to do silly things like losing forcing you into sex or making of use to copy homework for him! Just take your time and find out gradually, nobody is ever wise enough to realisewhether it is true love or not, irregardless of what age u are. Old fools are getting cheated out of their entire cpf by china woman too! lol...

Posted by: Available on 2010-03-10, 05:59:35

Please do not come to any conclusion immediately. keep in touch with him talk to him watch his activity towards you... watch how much do he care about you. just think Little mature you will come to know yourself... all the best. hope things work out for u.

Posted by: kanu on 2010-03-10, 06:02:00

Hey sweety u no it may b love may b not.when sumbody loves u cares fr u,u actualy get atractd to the person sometimes u fall in love not everytime .to differ betwen love n atraction the solution is take sum time understand ur feelings n ur emotions for him.dont take any quick decision observe your relation frm al situations it will take time but u wil also get ur ans urself.its very delicate stage of confusion dnt take any wrong decision... anyways take care gudluck..

Posted by: four on 2010-03-10, 06:02:30

1.i don't know whether I am in love. i am a teenager and a classmate of mine propsed me.+ 2. i too accepted. but i am not likely sure whether i love him. 3. but some times i think i can't live without him. 4. i can surely say he loves me a lot. but is mine a true love? 5. Atleast his love for me is how far tue? please give me a best answer of ur opinion. Point 1: You STarted with YOU dont know which says you are not sure point2: you said you accepted but now asking whether u love him or not ?????? then what did u accept point3: only sometimes you think like this then sure u dont love him point4: you said you are sure that he loves you but point 5 contradicts it. we are confused. Strongly recommend you to look for some better work. take it lite.

Posted by: Claire on 2010-03-10, 06:02:41

If you have to ask, then you aren't in love. You know when you are in love, it's not something anyone can tell you because it's different person-to-person.

Posted by: Madhukar on 2010-03-10, 06:05:27

This is just an an attraction towards him.. U cannot say this as love....

Posted by: chris on 2010-03-10, 06:07:13

How old are you my buddy? Let me tell you first off I to am fully aware of the complexity's of that which we come to call the teenage relationship. However as much as you feel that you are in love with this person remember that you are young, what your think to be love now may turn out to be a whole different thought in the next five to ten years. Make no mistake I am not telling you that what you are feeling most definitely could not possibly be love, there is always that offbeat chance!!!! What I am telling you however is that you are young at heart and soul and in growth, take your time certainly do not break off what you have with your friend. I would suggest however to continue to grow together and just play things by ear before you lay down the L Bomb trust me you will thank your self later on in life. GOOD LUCK BUDDY = )

Posted by: ChOcOlAtE bOy on 2010-03-10, 06:13:03

I can understand ur problem... love may come automatically(like ur boy).... now u too like him very much... but u do no is this love or not.... i hope u have very possessive about him.... i think this is the starting stage of love... u can only make it true r not!!!!! if u want him u only change ur mind of him... else avoid tat now itself.. dont be unsteady mind..... ...chocolate.....

Posted by: vijay on 2010-03-10, 06:15:28

Hi, i think You are so smart in the class. your classmate love you. so you Don't Love in class. because all girls & boys Don't like you, change your time and one Suggestion for me " don't love you because love only me.

Posted by: arun on 2010-03-10, 07:17:55

Its attraction! but if you still feel to make love to him, be a good friend for him for life time.. without good friendship love cannot be full filled... If you be a good friend for him, you will sure made as lovable couple one day... Regards Arun cloud

Posted by: Niya on 2010-03-10, 11:12:30

Time is the best answer. Dont think too much about it.

Posted by: Gunasd on 2010-03-11, 09:07:05

You are in attraction!

Posted by: ^The Star^ on 2010-03-12, 05:19:40

Anu(guessing you might be a south indian) my god!, its defintely an attraction, teenage stuff are ALWAYS(99.9%) infactuation. So if you like me, its understandable but don't mess it up(esp with family etc)