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Question: Problems with a guy please answer?? i give 10 points and i will love u forever n_n?

(Posted by: Yuna on 2010-03-10 06:51:40)

Well first of all thanks for your help :) well there is this guy in my class and i have a crush on him. But we sometimes ignore each other :/ Anyway yesterday i was about to enter my class and i was talking to a friend about how easy the subject was. All of a sudden he turned around and started an argument about how it was REALLY complicated and he said i knew nothing about it and finally told "have fun " then he ignored me the rest of the day, worst of all is that he said it in a very mean way :/ Today he sat infront of me and since i was mad i decided to ignore him. He turned around at least 5 times and just keept staring at me (for like longer than 10 seconds so i did noticed ¬¬) But i didnt even look at him so he tried to start conversation like 3 times and began smiling and graving all my notes and laughing at all the stuff i was telling to my friend... like WFT?? :S I really dont know what to think, why do guys do those things?? O_O does hate me or like or something?? :/ i think girls are less confussing?? ¬¬ thanks :) 10 points or 5 stars or whatever you wanna call it lol :P

Posted by: lovelylaura on 2010-03-10, 06:57:53

He fancies you darling! congrats but dont give in, try and enjoy the buzz and play hard to get, like when he kept looking at you and you ignored him, so he tried to make convo with you. thats good thats very good. play mind games with him he will like it and also be flirty and sweet but cute and not cheap or tacky when you talk to him. he willl love it. eventually make small but sweet touches to him, dont jump on him, just make small simple compliments like " oh gosh! your hands are so soft or huge! " or something like that and then place our hand over his as if your sizing and comparing each others hands and so on.... its boring to some, but he will love that small and short attention it will drive him wild. the reason why men are usually rude to women is because they are trying to get the girls attention, but dont or cant say it nicely and it comes out this way. he may want to play these mind games like now...you are thinking does he lik eme ? doesnt he? etc etc. so you do the same CAN I HAVE MY 10 POINTS PLEASE?

Posted by: prabhat v on 2010-03-10, 07:04:51

Forgive and forget loser.

Posted by: Christina. 20 weeks with baby#1 on 2010-03-10, 07:07:56

Well it seems quite obvious that he does like you. I think he feels dumb that he started an argument with you when you weren't even talking to him but a friend. maybe he struggles in the class and felt like you catch onto it so easily. usually guys do petty immature things like this to hint around that they do like you. The day after when he decided to try to talk to you, i'm pretty sure that was his way of saying "sorry ". And he probably didn't want you to ignore him. Since you like him, don't let him know you like him a lot, not yet at least. Make it harder for him to stand at your level. But don't make it tooo hard... (he might lose interest...) Hope this helps some. = )

Posted by: MaR on 2010-03-10, 07:18:39

Awww i was like the same way 4 years ago :) my boyfriend did same things he felt that i had crush on him and was verry mean (as i think and as all the boys do its a speciall way when the boy knows that girl likes him he is mean to know if this girl really likes him well you must be verry warm to him and sweet (boys like that kind a girls) well i did the same thing i was verry carrying and sweet to him if he asked something to me i answered it with smile and sweet eyes and the result is that tones of girls like him but he choosed me now he loves me as much as i did :P and we are happy together i wish you luck and hope that you'll be with that boy :)