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Question: How to make my bf love me and love me moore?

(Posted by: MaR on 2010-03-10 07:23:18)

Soo we are together for 5 days i loved him for 4 years and at least we are together he says that he loves me verry much and i wont really to belive that but the thing i s i'm worrying that he is verry attractive and hot so many girls like him and give anythign to be with him i'm soo proud and happy that he choosed me and he is with me he even had fiught with my ex boyfriend telling him that live me alone that i'm with him now and for me thats soo much but what do you ppl think should i do to make him love moor and moor ?

Posted by: Uncertain on 2010-03-10, 07:26:45

Lots of sex can bring you guys closer together, but you can't make him love you.

Posted by: feebee f on 2010-03-10, 07:28:58

Get counseling, you come off as pathetic, and thats always a turn-off. You need to play harder to get.

Posted by: Rocky on 2010-03-10, 07:30:14

Mar - You need to work on your grammar. I only say that because smart is sexy to a smart man and a smart man is the only kind of man worth having. Secondly, that's great girls are interested in him but if he loves you, you are the only girl int he world to him and the rest don't matter. Take solace in knowing he is with you and wants to be with you. If he didn't, he would end the relationship and sleep with all the other girls. He hasn't so don't worry about it. Also, keep him interested. Do things you haven't done before.

Posted by: Kwel on 2010-03-10, 07:31:26

Well if he loves you already and he says he does then there is not much you can do except stay with him and be a normal girlfriend. Love him and show him you love him. Do not let him convince you into sexual stuff until your ready though. No guy is worth doing stuff with to keep around. Just play it out day by day.

Posted by: bigdaddy_ruffluv on 2010-03-10, 07:35:21

When you give head make sure you swallow it's very important. It will bring you closer i am certain of that.

Posted by: Genie on 2010-03-10, 07:42:47

You can not make any one love you more! Just continue to be the person that he was attracted to, Why do you think that it is something that you can do to make any one love you? He must see something special about you.Continue to be yourself and I think every thing will work out. Good luck!

Posted by: coy on 2010-03-10, 07:43:52

IF he's fighting with your ex but is giving in to the cries of other girls, maybe you're just a trophy girl........

Posted by: CatsP on 2010-03-10, 07:46:07

Hi, What you need to understand first is looks have nothing to do with love. True love is a very deep emotion that comes from within for many reasons. No matter what someone looks like has no real standing when it comes to true love. Lust , Crushes , those are things that come and go and can have alot to do with looks. However true love is a whole different story. You ask how can I make him love me more? Love is not something you can force or make happen. I understand you seem to feel a insecurity that he is so good looking you might be able to lose him. What you need to come to terms with if you could lose him because so many other girls like and want him then hes not ment for you to have. The reality is all you have to do is be happy with yourself, love and respect who you are while you date him. Understand you are worth being with and you are a catch just like he is. In this process your self worth will shine throw. This is very attractive to a man and in general very appealing to anyone you come in contact with. You don't want to allow yourself to act as a weaker woman and fall down into the insecurity level type of woman because that puts you out of the drivers seat fast and even can help you lose a man. Males in the end tend to pick and stay with females who they respect the most. Males respect someone who is strong and independent because they are taught all there lives thats what a man needs to be.. Therefor when a man finds a female to have these traits his interest for her is very high above other females no matter what they look like. Hes picked you for a reason. Thats a good start so becareful not to make him 2nd guess his choice. What again can you do be confidant and secure with yourself. Love is a natural process allow it to flow without all this worry.. I have found in my many years of exp what is ment to happen falls into place so if he ever walks away from you because he has so many choices then it's ok because the right man will not see all his choices as a option he will see you as the only one for him. I will not tell you what you want to hear i will tell you the truth!