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Question: Does he really love me ?

(Posted by: kimberlyalane=) on 2010-03-10 07:52:39)

Okay so, me and my boyfriend have been together for a good while now. i instantly fell in love with him within the next month we was together, never had a bad thought in my mind about our relationship. that is until i got a strange txt message from a girl that wanted to know if we was together, she told me that they had made out the past two nights. so when i asked him about it he of course denied it. i was very upset, and decided to take matters into my own hand and i cheated on him. well, of course i never told him and it was just left at that. we broke up twice in between those times because we had problems with girls tryin to talk to him, and guys trying to talk to me. so we just ended it. but, once i realized that i didn't want to be without him we got back together. this time is different ... he is the sweestest person i have ever come in contact with. he opens my car door for me, pulls out my chair at the restuarant, pays for my gas money, and pretty much pays for anything. he is a true gentleman, and i've even stopped txtin or talking to other guys completely. an he says he has done the same with girls. soo i'm jus wondering yourr opinions, is this relationship worth it. does he love me ?

Posted by: �JULIE� on 2010-03-10, 07:58:28

How old are you?? and him being nice is just a way of him trying to make things better.. you cheated.. 2 wrongs dont make a right cause if you really loved him you wouldnt have cheated..

Posted by: LunaRossa on 2010-03-10, 08:00:36

I don't think the real issue here is whether he loves you or not. The issue is the obvious lack of maturity on both of your parts, but especially YOURS. You "took matters into your own hands " based off what some chick (you probably don't even know) said? You two can't handle talking to the opposite sex without it being an issue in your relationship? This relationship obviously lacks foundation, maturity, respect, and friendship. In short, it's doomed. The niceties of him being a gentleman is like cotton-candy: sweet while it lasts. To answer your question, if he loves you, you'd know. I knew my fiance loved me well before he ever said the words, and I knew it so deeply that the words were unnecessary.