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Question: What to do if your boyfriends best friend confesses his secret love for you?

(Posted by: Tatiana on 2010-03-10 08:45:52)

My boyfriend's best friend just told me that he has always been into me and wants to wait even if it's " forever " for me. A problem is that I did confess to him one night that I was frustrated with my bf because I am his first serious gf and he is still really inexperienced. I don't know how to handle this!

Posted by: Dunson41 on 2010-03-10, 09:15:06

Wow that dude's not really your BF's friend. Tell him to go out and meet other girls, (no offense) he's obviously spending too much time with you guys. Optionally tell him to back off or you'll tell your BF.

Posted by: princessx3 on 2010-03-10, 08:49:10

Aw, its like my situation although the 'bf' wasnt going out with my best friend at the time so it must be even more difficult and confusing for you. What i did, was say No. Move on, at this moment i dont think that we could ever go out because i love my best friend and she means a lot to me and its always friends before boys. Do whats best.. You'll figure things out. Good Luck <33

Posted by: what's for dinner? on 2010-03-10, 08:57:17

If you care about your bf you need to tell him. If you don't and he finds out later and that you did not tell him, he will be p*ssed and say no hasta luego, and split. What you said to his best friend has nothing to do with what the best friend said to you. But, for the future, be careful not confess stuff about being frustrated about his inexperience to his friends unless you want it getting back to him. If you really are frustrated, talk to him because he is the only one who can do anything about that for you ; ). Don't worry about telling him what his supposed friend said. Because to say what he did to you shows he is no friend and is a backstabber (do you want your bf to have someone he thinks is a friend trying to get into your pants or waiting in the wings to get into them?)