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Question: What makes a man fall seriously in love with a girl?

(Posted by: simz on 2010-03-10 09:17:47)

I always wonder what a man really looking for a girl. is it all about the looks, personality or what? preferably for a man point of view. but girls you are free to answer.. thanks ^_^

Posted by: John on 2010-03-10, 09:19:01

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Posted by: Maxwell on 2010-03-10, 09:19:28

Yeah its about the looks and the personality but its also about that spark where you can both talk about anything and get that instant spark of comfort with each other.

Posted by: infliktedbeagle on 2010-03-10, 09:19:32

Ignorance, in my case anyway.

Posted by: ~hugz & snugz~ on 2010-03-10, 09:21:10

What makes the sky blue?

Posted by: Carrie Lynn on 2010-03-10, 09:21:13

Coming from a bi chick, I have to have a little bit of both. A cute face and the right amount of curves are WONDERFUL, but the girl also has to be decently smart, have my humor, and be passionate about something.

Posted by: Jmt183 on 2010-03-10, 09:21:30

I am a 19 yr old college guy so here is what I LIKE! 1.Looks (you can't be ugly sorry, but you don't have to be a model) 2.Body (no fatties :( ) 3. Low to Medium Mantience ( i dont wanna drop a grand a week on you sorry) 4. Personality 5. How friendly you are 6. SENSE OF HUMOR! (this should proly be #1 who doesnt like to laugh) 7. How comfortable i feel around you 8. Intelligent 9. Isn't Bi-Polar (im serious a lot of girls ive dated change from second to second) 10. Sex (you would think it would be higher ) :D

Posted by: Resident Expert on 2010-03-10, 09:25:31

I'm not a man, but I can kind of see through a man's POV. He wants a woman who can respect and give him his space. A woman who doesn't constantly point out his faults, but praises him. A woman who can respect his manhood. (Like, if you two are driving and you get lost. Don't try and help him out with the directions - he'll feel more like a man if you just let him figure it out on his own.) A woman who doesn't expect him to be mushy-gushy romantic, whisper poetry in her ear, talk about his "feelings " etc etc...Men are strange creatures, very different from women. They don't like to just sit there and talk about their feelings, they have a very indirect way of handling them. Just because a man doesn't buy you flowers and diamonds each week, he'll do something else to show his love. Like, fixing your car without asking him to, or actually leaving the toilet seat down.

Posted by: joemoser1948 on 2010-03-10, 09:27:50

There are no standard rules. It's all a matter of personal NEED. And even for a single person, his needs/ tastes may not be consistent from girl to girl.

Posted by: hayn on 2010-03-10, 09:28:55

Usually just depends on the guys preferences, physical beauty will take a woman far but it is not lasting. A woman who is easy to fall for is a woman who knows who she is, knows what she wants out of life, knows her own self worth, and is self-reliant (independent). Mostly, its a woman who makes a man better by simply being herself.