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Question: After everything he did, why do i still love him?

(Posted by: blondechickie92 on 2010-03-10 09:30:43)

I have known this guy for almost a two years now. i dated him at the beginning for the school year and it was wonderful. he never touched me the wrong way, he respected my parents and would help them in any way. well one day after i got sick he came over and broke up with me after his ex called him. i dont know what happened or what was said. but he broke up with me and it hurt a lot. that was almost 6 months ago and there has been a lot of drama between now and then. we secretly talked for a while then he wouldnt talk to me or look at me. then in january and half of february we talked and it was great. i could tell him every thing like i use to when we were friends and when we were dating. well my mom txted him ab the race and his girlfriend got mad and txted my mom back well my mom txt her back well she called my mom and said some things. my mom didnt like it so she said some stuff and called her a b***h. so she told her boyfriend and he called us and told us if we ever call him, txt him, or try to get a hold of him in any way that there will be problems. i thought that was the end of it after i heard that but no i still love him and i still want to be with him. i cant see my life with out him. what is wrong with me? why do i still love him? will this effect my future relationshfips? will i ever get over him?? thanks for your help!! :) xoxo blondechickie :)

Posted by: Mine Eyes on 2010-03-10, 09:34:07

He obviously has stronger feelings for his ex girlfriend. They probably had something in the past that you cant even imagine. Something stronger than you or him ever had together. Let it go.

Posted by: ~*MaRjAaNi*~ on 2010-03-10, 09:36:31

He likes his gf much better and only considers u a friend.. obviously.. i wouldnt contact him ever again.. he dusnt value u as much anymore.. therez many more guys out there who know how to love and value girls.. hope u meet him one day ♥