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Question: He loves me, we are together, he is great, but i am not sure?

(Posted by: Electronic-x-Ena on 2010-03-10 10:00:51)

He calls me and visits everyday, he brought me flowers, he cares for me and loves me. I love him too... but lately I have noticed that something is missing... when I kissed him I thought of my ex, and how it felt with him. my ex and my new boyfriend are complete opposites... mt ex didn't call me... I called him, I was the one who tried and get him. he loved me but I didn't see that at the moment and found out only after we broke up. but don't get me wrong... I got over my ex. I will never go back to him. My bf... well he calls me and he is the one who comes to me. Not that I don't.... I do, but he does it more often. I don't know what is missing in him... I guess it's me... there's no spark like with my ex... who do I get that spark?

Posted by: chanelle330 on 2010-03-10, 10:05:19

I think you miss the "chase " with your ex...Maybe your just being overwhelmed with all the time your spending with your boyfriend. He sounds great maybe you guys should just give each other a little space. You and you ex had that space way more than you needed and i think thats what you really miss. The space you too gave each other.

Posted by: Kat on 2010-03-10, 10:03:42

Sound's to me like like your missing the thrill of chasing, Your ex was unavailable and you were chasing him now that ur current boyfriend is available and reliable, You can't handle it, Speak to your bf and suggest he becomes less available to see if that's whats bothering you if not you may have to have a rethink whether you love the guy or do you love the fact hes there for you?

Posted by: BrittanyK on 2010-03-10, 10:04:28

As for the "spark " it cums w/ time ... b patient some sparks take longer ... some love takes longer ... ull nvr no 4 sure how long it will take but u seem very happy so stay w/ him ... wait an see ... it may b the greatest experience of ur life

Posted by: vIpRa dE pUnK pRiNcESs cRaZzY on 2010-03-10, 10:08:15

U felt fr ure ex bcoz ure were the one behind him...its opposite here...u dont really love him...not dat u hate him but u dont just really love him...its just like u have to love him coz uve accepted his proposal...good dat u got ovr ure ex nd i dont tell u to go back...if u want wait for a guy to cum accross nd see if he gives u sparks :P till then give ure current relation sum time nd then maybe it`ll grow on u !!!!! :D

Posted by: Melvin S on 2010-03-10, 10:11:23

Getting married for the rest of your young life, this is for a... long... long ... Time , so take your time with your Spark ...........O K ........................ < < < < < < < < < Above all have a nice day after day after day ...Will you know what I mean > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Mel, < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >