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Question: How do you get over a man you are madly in love with?

(Posted by: on 2012-01-27 21:38:02)

My boyfriend did this (drunk) at a party: - snuggle with a girl in a mattress (in the dark) - kiss her forehead - let her kiss his cheek/ ear & touch his back/ legs - feel close with her (wanted to get closer) AND wanted to snuggle with her - rejected her when she tried to kiss his lips or hold his hands and moved away from her - confessed to me crying the next day (i know he loves me and he didn't mean it) Now I know it's not bad at all.... but I hate him for not replying to my text and having fun at a party/ flirting with a girl. Being drunk is not a reason. I forgive him, but I am trying to let him go. Though, it is HARD! What is the best way/ method to get over a man you love?

Posted by: Mariah on 2012-01-27, 21:40:03

SPACE. ignore him and when you find yourself thinking about him, stop. Get rid of anything that will remind you of him. Good luck!

Posted by: selfmadegypsy on 2012-01-27, 21:40:26

The most effective short term solution is to get with another guy. but just don't fall in love with your rebound man!

Posted by: Aly Jay on 2012-01-27, 21:40:41

Well if you are madly in love with him why let him go? Give him a second chance. Its not like he smashed with girl or anything and he kept enough common sense to stop her from kissing him. If he came to you crying the next day then there's a good chance he's genuinely apologetic about it.

Posted by: Someone on 2012-01-27, 21:47:21

He loves you! And you love him! He was drunk, I know it's a bad excuse but he still had the sence not to go pass kissing on the lips! And he wouldn't have touched her if he was sober. But if happens again, piss him off.