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Question: Is it embarrassing to a guy if he can't receive pleasure from making out?

(Posted by: Amber on 2010-02-05 10:06:51)

I almost slept with a guy last weekend & he wasn't able to receive pleasure from making out. He seemed pretty irritated, and I wonder why, as all we were doing was making out. I think he's attracted to me. Maybe he isn't, or he would have received pleasure from our experience? Would he be embarrassed from not receiving pleasure from the experience? If so, why? Thanks. Oh, he did really quickly, in the beginning, but that was premature.

Posted by: Desiree on 2010-02-05, 10:14:58

He sounds like he is just trying to get some @$$ hun. I don't know anyone who doesn't get aroused by making out. I would ditch the sucker and move on to someone who is worth being in a relationship with. However if your plans are jsut to sleep with him, which I never recommend, then worry less about the kissing and more about the business.

Posted by: zasek on 2010-02-05, 10:13:01

He's focus'd on what he wants, not what he's getting. Don't blame him tho, most guys are the same til they grow up a bit

Posted by: whyme on 2010-02-05, 10:13:59

The answer would be yes and he was probably nervous you have to be reassuring with him if your going to continue this relationship and he will be embarrassed give him time and he will relax learn from each other