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Question: Does this mean anything to you or is it just for his pleasure?

(Posted by: confused on 2010-02-17 13:27:54)

We are friends at first he said he doesnt like younger girls(imma yr. younger). next he told me im hot and that he likes me like im cool to talk to and be around. (i told him hes hot first and then i told himi didnt like him[i lied] then once he told me how he felt i told him i did kinda like him) so we hung out and talked he asked me to have sex i said no of course. also that im just not ready. then we dont talk for lik 2 or 3 weeks exept mayb hi or how are u. then yeatser day he asked if i wanted to hang out i said yes so i went to his house we kissed 2 times. he got in my shirt sumhow?? i told him clothes staded on he respected that. but i told him he could go in my shirl if he pleased. but i rather he not. he did one last time. then we made out once for about 20 seconds. we talked then i had to go b4 his parents go home. so when i left he walked me out and around back (around back for short cut)

Posted by: QWERT99 on 2010-02-17, 13:33:11

Clearly just for his pleasure... It's the standard situation

Posted by: Sprintspeed on 2010-02-17, 13:31:44

Either he's just really horny all the time, or more likely, he's only interested in your looks.

Posted by: sweety r on 2010-02-17, 13:37:47

He is a littlee hornyyy fishh........................

Posted by: happylovehealth on 2010-02-17, 14:02:13

He's attracted a bit - and the way he is handling you - it doesnt seems he is actually serious about you. Nor does it seem he is the kind of guy who would respect a girl. He is trying to give odd made up reasons - which you are actually believing - because you are innocent. the second important thing is: if YOU dont like or want something - no matter how much/ little physical it is - let it stop then and there. you are not a commodity that you would say: "you could go in my shirt if you please " - you are making yourself vulnerable by saying such stuff - this is the time you should open your eyes - because if he is playing - its YOU who would be suffering...