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Question: Women seem to demonstrate more pleasure during sex? why is this?

(Posted by: sonia on 2010-03-03 05:48:05)

Women make much more noise from having an orgasm than do men. Does this mean that sex is more enjoyable for them than it is for men

Posted by: Omni Chaotic on 2010-03-03, 05:50:02

Explained this to my wife a while back. When a guy has sex it's like he's getting a "itch " that he couldn't "scratch. " So we feel more relief then "pleasure. " It makes all our stress go away and relaxes us. Sure act the "climax " it feels really pleasurable but that's only for a moment. While if your good at sex the girl feels pleasure during the whole thing (thus her screaming/ moaning and the multiple orgasms).

Posted by: Iggy on 2010-03-03, 05:49:14

Get off the porn sites.

Posted by: <3 on 2010-03-03, 05:51:27

WELL 4 ME I DO GET LOUD DEPENDING HOW GOOD THE GUY IS. SO IF IM LOUD ITS A GOOD THANG. GUYS CAN FEEL JUST AS GOOD AS THE GIRLS BUT REMAIN SILENT. I THINK MAYBE THERE NASTY LITTLE BRAINS ARE THINKING OF HOW GOOD IT IS AND CONCENTRATING ON CUMIING RATHER THAN EXPRESS IT LIKE US GURLS

Posted by: ♥JD♥ on 2010-03-03, 05:52:02

No, when I make noise I just want the guy to think hes doing something...But usually I'm thinking about what to cook for dinner

Posted by: C on 2010-03-03, 05:52:23

I believe its simply an emotional thing. It depends on the person and the mood at the time. I met a guy and have been goin out a while and last night we did it for the first time... he very much was getting pleasure out of it, but men show it more with their body, ie, hands caressing, lips everywhere etc. Women are more noise based... but to be honest I know the way I act in sex is a way I have learned men love, the way I bend etc is something that is now a habit... I think men are too busy thinkin of other things to think like that...

Posted by: Night Skies Fading on 2010-03-03, 05:52:41

Maybe in porns but not in real life, or maybe you just haven't had enough experiences. Men can be loud. Anyway, I think women are more demonstrative for many things, not just sexual pleasure. They often show their love and care more than men. That's a female thing. Also, there's no such thing as bas sex for a guy. You take pleasure most of the time whereas it is much harder for a woman to reach orgasm. So when we do, we are pretty happy.

Posted by: Nick F on 2010-03-03, 05:53:10

I've always had this question as well. The clit has more nerve endings than the penis, but it seems like women have a much harder time reaching orgasm and it takes longer for them to reach it. With that said, their orgasms seem to be much more powerful as they are more vocal, spasm more, and just seem to all around have a powerful orgasm that nearly paralyzes them. My guess is a guy's best orgasm is a woman's OK orgasm.

Posted by: Brett on 2010-03-03, 05:53:24

Ask a transgenderd person, only they would know that.

Posted by: Poppet on 2010-03-03, 05:54:21

Men are enjoying themselves but they are also trying to restrain themselves. They are concentrating hence why they are quieter. Women don't have to hold off and just let loose.

Posted by: Wage Slave on 2010-03-03, 06:03:01

Ah Sandra, good question. Guys and girls are built differently. There are a lot of reasons it's great to be a guy, but you ladies have it when it comes to sex. Most guys are pretty one dimensional when it comes to sex. We have one important erogenous zone and that's it. Suck on our nipples and it usually only tickles. You ladies on the other hand..... Where do I begin? Well, you know. You have many erogenous zones- including the mind. The right dirty talk will get you going. Then there is kissing- the lips, the neck, eyelids, earlobes. After a bit we will move down your body, play with your breasts. By now you are probably really turned on. The skillful lover will stroke your stomach and inner thighs, and then go in for the really good stuff. And let's not even get into multiple orgasms. Feeling a little flustered??? Yes, sex is more enjoyable for you in the hands of a skilled lover. We want it more, but you enjoy it more- when it's done the right way.

Posted by: falconprince on 2010-03-03, 06:07:50

If a woman is making a lot of noise it's a good thing because she's relaxing and letting herself go A guy kinda spends his time concentrating on doing it right for her and holding himself back long enough to get her where she's at and to finish her off with the huge number of orgasms that's she demands from him If she's quiet and working out her shopping list, it's gone wrong and she will probably fake it to get him off her as quickly as she can Go by your own experiences, not what you see in the porn movies Most of all try to have fun x

Posted by: Janeee on 2010-03-04, 01:08:09

Well I think that you poor guys have the poor deal.......cum once or twice while I cum 5 or 6 times and go to heaven and back.......you guys go grunt grunt and thats it