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Question: Can guys be nice to each other without it meaning sexual?

(Posted by: Sir Nathan.King of Hippies on 2010-03-06 12:28:36)

Can guys be nice and kind and not mean you're gay?

Posted by: Mike A on 2010-03-06, 14:39:04

There is certainly many ways to be nice to a guy without it being sexual. There's the classic ritual of going out for beers or watching a game, or going target shooting. Lots of other stuff to do. The questionon is, are you having sexual feelings towards them when you think about being nice? There is nothing wrong with feeling that way. It might mean that you are either bisexual or gay. If you do find yourself feeling that way, then maybe you might try meeting some gay guys and seeing how things work out. And that's the best advice I can give

Posted by: Ladybug on 2010-03-06, 12:30:28

Of course!!! i'm a girl and mostly all of my friends r girls and i'm very nice to them, but as in the friendly nice way, not the lesbo way, cuz i'm not a lesbien!!!!!!!!!!!!! RN'T EVERYONE NICE TO THEIR FRIENDS!?

Posted by: Wrighty on 2010-03-06, 12:30:34

Yes...me and my best friend engage in plenty of frankly edgy banter yet we both know we arent sexually attracted to eachother...so its cool!

Posted by: johnb693 on 2010-03-06, 12:31:50

God I hope so, lol Although, in some cases, it's not considered manly behavior. But why shouldn't two guys have a close relationship, and treat each other with respect. And with no sexual activity between them. I suppose it all depends, on how you take kind and nice to mean.