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Question: What sexual things can me and my boyfriend do without actually having sex?

(Posted by: TYLERS GIRL:) on 2010-03-06 18:30:10)

My boyfriend and me want to have sex but we both want to wait a little longer to be sure we are absolutely ready. we want to know what types of sexual things we could do without actually "having sex " does anyone have any ideas???????

Posted by: Bill M. on 2010-03-06, 18:34:19

Just hugging and kissing. Giving each other a massage. Staying close and in contact with each other's skin should do. Anything beyond could easily lead to sex if you can't control it.

Posted by: Hans Downerpantz on 2010-03-06, 18:31:27

You can have "Aural sex "...Once you go black, you go deaf

Posted by: Jonathan on 2010-03-06, 18:31:39

Blowjobs or handjobs is your ultimate choice besides sexual things, or feeling each other up while making out, or not while making out. That's really the only thing.

Posted by: dktr. sh[ ]mp on 2010-03-06, 18:31:41

Seriously? How old are you?

Posted by: chafer on 2010-03-06, 18:31:43

Um masterbating one another oral dry humping anything like that

Posted by: ashley! on 2010-03-06, 18:31:48

Oral sex and/ or fingering and hand jobs

Posted by: �� ArmyWife �� on 2010-03-06, 18:32:15

Oral sex, dry humping, passionate kissing.

Posted by: ♥Life is hard♥Love is harder♥ on 2010-03-06, 18:33:22

I wouldnt start to do anything . Once you get into the "sexual " mood, you're not going to want to stop and sooner or later, you'll end up having sex in bed .

Posted by: Dreamer on 2010-03-06, 18:33:40

You know what you should just wait

Posted by: Sweetness on 2010-03-06, 18:34:06

Hi Just wait. It sounds like your not even old enough to experience sex none the less ready to have it. Just kiss and make out and that's it. Once your both mature enough to have sex then you can take that extra step and make it a moment that both of you will remember, rather than regretting.

Posted by: caliguy on 2010-03-06, 18:34:28

If you dont know maybe your not ready to do nothing at all think about that

Posted by: Code man on 2010-03-06, 18:34:48

Oral hand jobs anal fingering boob sex he can lube up the crease in your leg and have sex with that you could get some toys its all good

Posted by: greeneyed on 2010-03-06, 18:34:51

Nothing,...it will all lead up to sex...good luck finding something...(that wont lead to intercourse)..

Posted by: jasmine on 2010-03-06, 18:34:52

Hand job, blow job, he could go down on you, make out, cuddle, uhhh yeah:)

Posted by: Jess(: on 2010-03-06, 18:35:12

Once your in the mood, it's hard to stop. MY PERSONAL OPINION: would be to stick with making out, and maybe hands could wonder.. buttttt; nothing TOO sexual. good luck.

Posted by: the cedar one on 2010-03-06, 18:35:56

Use your hands and fingers rub up against each other. toys

Posted by: vicky on 2010-03-06, 18:36:00

How old are you missy? when you are old enough, you wont need to ask this question!

Posted by: Erika W on 2010-03-06, 18:36:52

I'm glad that both you and your boyfriend decided to wait just to make sure that you were ready to take that step...there are quite a bit of options: fingering, handjob, oral sex, intense makeouts, dry humping...uhh yea, and if you guys really decide to have sex then make sure you use protection

Posted by: Josiah on 2010-03-06, 18:37:04

Without actually having sex, well by sex I assume you mean all types of sex. Oral, Anal, and of course actual intercourse. Soooo.... you could make out... you could dry hump clothes on so he doesn't get tempted to slip it in... and if you need more than that but still no sex, you could always give each other hand jobs, but that might make him want more it's kind of a tease, but if he is game... Good Luck!!!

Posted by: :)omgg!!♥ on 2010-03-06, 18:37:29

Making out, kissing, oral sex, hand-jobs, masturbating together, dry-humping, or my favorite- hugging :)