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Question: Why does my bf lie to me about his sexual past why does he act so vague about it and not be upfront about it?

(Posted by: Trying to find wisdom on 2010-03-08 19:41:27)

Continue.. while he acts like a hypocite and wants a direct and honest question from me why is he so scared?? he actually gave me two different ages from losing his virginity. i actually blew up one day because he gave me an answer that he started at a very i mean very young age because that made me feel insecure inside that i have to compete with these women i know he is with me but seriously if you don't want me to know just say it instead of going around in circles

Posted by: Hannah on 2010-03-08, 19:45:10

He probably feels insecure about the things he's done. You blowing up at him probably made it worse. You should tell him that he can trust you with anything and that it doesn't matter to your current relationship what he's done in the past, because truthfully it doesn't. After that you'll just have to wait until he feels he can trust you.

Posted by: trebor2 on 2010-03-08, 19:49:33

What diff does it make who he screwed in the past He's with you now, and that's all that should matter.